What could make a woman cheat on a "good" man?"

Infidelity is one of the major causes of divorce and relationship problems.

Women are quick to talk about how some man has done them wrong, yet we all know that some women cheat just as much as men and are even known to be better at it than men.

I always say that table game dealers are like bartenders, people come gamble, drink and tell you their life story!

I had a conversation with a man (who happened to be playing at my game the other day) who was distraught because he had just recently found out that his wife was cheating. He claims that during their nineteen years of marriage he has given her everything yet she felt the need to go out and get a boyfriend. (She's 45 and the boyfriend is 29)

He said that he came to Biloxi to get away and think about what his next step should be. When I told him that I am an author who writes about relationships, he wanted to tell me his story.

He is a very successful architect who has his business in Miami. He and his wife have two children together, ages 16 and 18. He said he's always been a loving husband and father who believes that family comes first before anything. He has always given his wife and family the best of everything . . . nice homes (a few of which he designed). Exotic/romantic vacations (two, sometimes three times a year) a new vehicle every other year, and she has access to all of his money.

He has been a loyal faithful husband to his wife since the day they were married, so he's not sure where he went wrong.

I can proudly say that I've never cheated on any man in my life, so I'm not sure what would make a woman cheat on a good man. So I want to ask you . . .

What could make a woman cheat on a good man? When I refer to a good man, I mean a wonderful husband, father and provider. A man who makes sure that all your needs are met so that you won't want for anything.

Okay ladies, some of you have done it, so be honest. What made you cheat on a good man?

And men, I know some of you good men have been cheated on as well, so let us know what happened and what excuse did that cheating woman have for doing it! (lol)

Originally posted to www.myspace.com/glendawallace